Monday, June 28, 2010

What Women Want!

“Women, I tell you…are the most confused creatures ever born. They don’t do what you expect them to do, and we don’t understand what they want us to do.” Okay, I’m tired of hearing this over and over again from different guys in different situations, but the moral is just the same…women have no idea of what they want from men. Now I, being a woman myself, beg to differ. Women have a pretty clear idea of what they want, it’s just that guys are incapable of figuring that out!!

Now I’ve also seen that guys have some conventional ideas regarding what we want. Say for example, we love shopping. Yeah yeah, we do…big deal guys?? And we DO love dressing up, thank you. That’s just because we love looking good. And looking good is feeling good, right?? Who would you ogle at if we didn’t have the looks to kill?

Girls love their friends as much as guys do. Contrary to popular belief, we don’t ditch our friends on the slightest pretext. We laugh our hearts out, share our secrets, enjoy and cry together.

I’ve also heard some guys hinting about our love for gossip. That’s still acceptable, but when someone terms that as ‘bitching’, we definitely don’t agree. And yeah, just because some girl hasn’t accepted your offer to go out for coffee…you can’t just tag all of us as snobs. Rather, you need to check if you have bad breath!

Now comes the most confusing part…what do girls want from their partners? Guys, you don’t need to be rocket scientists to figure that out; you just need to be more understanding. So, read on.

Girls are loveable beings and they crave for love. A girl will always want her partner to love her more than anything else in the universe…to listen to her woes, to hold her hand when she’s blue, to wipe her tears when she’s hurt. In short, we want our guys to care for us. She knows that you love her, but you need to tell her that time and again, she loves it when you do that. She loves it when you introduce her to your friends, when you respect her family as much as you respect her, when you offer to drop her home if it’s late, when you smile at her without reason and place a sudden kiss on her cheeks. Girls love to be loved, and they can love you back just as much. Maybe more!

There are also certain things which girls don’t want their partners to do. Two-timing, lying and cheating top the list. Lust is also a strict no-no. A girl would certainly be disgusted if she goes out with you and you stare less at her face and more at her…you-know-what. We hate it if you don’t understand us and that’s what leads to all the fights(sighs). And when we’re hurt and our eyes are wet, we don’t want you to term us as ‘cry-babies’. Respect our emotions, guys. We hate it if you gape at girls in hot pants when we are with you (and also when we aren’t). A girl most certainly will not like it if you neglect her when you’re at your friend’s place, too busy watching soccer and sipping beer. And yeah, you should never be messy and unclean when you’re around us. That doesn’t sound too hard, does it??!

So that’s just about everything a woman wants. Or is it?? It’s my point of view anyway, and as you know, this can’t be generalized to all women. But hey, I’m not wrong, my girls, am I??

P.S. This is my very first post, and I wrote this to participate in the Blogadda contest.


  1. What!!!Girls want so many things???uff..You just took the word "Demanding" to a whole new level..

    Jokes apart, awesome post...i hope it wins (and i get a treat for inspiring you.)... u rock, me love.

  2. great job..this should be read by all will clear a lot of confusion in their mind about girls... :)

  3. Yes indeed you've pointed out all that a woman wants from her man.
    A job well done. :))
    Best of luck for the contest!

  4. awsm,brilliant...
    ol d bst..:)
    good luck ankit :P

  5. arre ami puropuri tor sathe agree kori re :) kudos!!!

  6. 1. Etai to sobcheye boro problem j meyera bhabe "Guys don't understand us." And sob kothay tader bola obbhesh j "tui bujhbi na". Meyera jenosobjanta boddha j r keu kichu bujhbe na....bojhanor chesta to kore dekha uchit.

    2. And yah they are really confused. Jokhon tader dike keu dekhe na tokhon bolbe "amr dike keno keu dekhe na??" abr jokhon sobai tader dike dekhbe tokhon bolbe "Uff....haa kore takiye ache". Baki eg public blog bole dilam na r. :)

    3. Tara "space" sobdo ta bodhoy bojhe na...As you wrote...j meyera sobsomoy chay j amra tader sathe busy thaki...take charao amr to ekta life ache....frndz family...tader keo time dewa dorkar....eta meyeder bojha uchit...sobsomoy ami takei time debo?? Isn't it unfair??

    4. And lastly about the *** thing....haan chelera eta niye ektu beshie chintito(sorry guys) but meyerao j chinta kore na ta noy sudhu prokash kore na....if not then why don't they accept an imputent person assuming that he'll love her most??? Prem tai jodi sobkichu hoy tahole sei prem ta j kono person-er theke aste pare even 4m a it ok with u girls?? :P

    4. Romance kothatar sathe sorir ta prane-prone joriye ache....saradin to romance, romantic kothagulo aure berai....eta ki ekbaro chinta koreche?? Amra baccha noi so ektu aldult behave kora ta kharap kichu noy..!! :)

    5. So or sathe ami j bishoy ekmot...*** shouldn't be the only thing it should be blend with emotion...jeta amra chelera sadharonoto kore thaki na(sorry guys)

    6. Haan chelera ektu "unclean" thiki....kintu ekta kotha bhaba uchit moja ta ki tototai hoto jodi sob expectation gulo meet korto?? Jodi gf ekta bf-er bari giye "uff tor ghor ta ki nongra" bole tar jamakapor gulo bhaj na korto romance ki tototai thakto??

  7. @sayantan and debolina...thanx a lot guys!! i need some positive feedback!!
    @sammy...thank u sooo much, and good luck to you too!!
    @krishnandu...i don't blame you but a LOT of guys are as hopeless as you are, and I have answers to counteract every point of yours, but lets not bring it up...keep guessing!

  8. @Ananya Ei jonnoi to bole meyeder buddhi nai...!! Karon tader logically kono kotha bojhar khomota tai nei..!! Tui ja ans dibi segulor ans o dite you keep guessing....r btw chelera jodi etoi hopeless hoy cheleder k chere meyeder sathe prem kora start kor :)

  9. @krishnandu ami shob chele k hopeless bolini...toke bolechi! and yeah, I never claim that guys are culprits or they do anything on purpose...there are loads of nice guys too, who stand up when some girl gets harassed in a crowded bus, who don't think spending time with their girlfriends is a pain in the ***..etc etc. Its just that our mindsets are different, we have been made differently so guys do have a problem when it comes to understanding women.
    And hey, I don't want a boy vs girl fight out here. Peace :D

  10. @Ananya Blog ta bodhoy sei topic takei promote kore...!! Jeta tui eriye jacchish...!! Tor kotha onujai sob meyerao hopeless noy tor moto...aur jahantak ladkiyon ko samajhne ki baat hai....all guys have same decission. :)

  11. awesum re....
    It'll surely help a man to solve the problems regarding to his woman..
    well done...
    All d best :-)

  12. yaar!!u r a fantabulous writer......
    watever u hav written is 100%true.well,although i am a follower of men rather than women but i agree with all ur points....
    nyways...would love to see u win...all the best!!

  13. well done ananya! proud of u!=)=)

  14. @madhuri and sreetama....thanks a lot girls!!! luv ya

  15. Well said .. but surprisingly tui ja bhabish sheta Rima o bhabe :))